Another dating advice article

Yes there are now rich attractive guys essentially telling women to "stay single" and that "men who don't pursue them aren't interested in them." Why? So they can have more play toys for when they get bored.

Fact is men are more and more slowly losing their confidence to pursue those they're attracted to, and there's good reasoning. And telling women not to pursue, that if they're not pursued people aren't interested, can be damaging for their mental health. Many men are afraid to approach women.

Read the articles, look at video director Rob Bliss's article with Christian Science Magazine. There are plenty of articles where women say they leave their homes not wanting to be talked to by anyone and that every person who says anything to them is harassing them. Maybe not you but some of y'all have gone beyond cat calling and vulgarity to just being told hello. No man wants to risk going to jail because they were being polite and said hello.

And police will tell you that offering to buy a person a drink in a bar is harrassment if the other decides you're not the person they want asking. Typically in that case if called upon, police will just ask the person to leave the other alone and dismiss it but there are hard ass cops that will handle it like If you were doing 1 mile over the speed limit.

And then y'all token resisters have been destroying men's confidence for years. I mean in 2019 around 40% of y'all still used token resistance, near the same number as 20 plus years ago. If a guy has bad luck with pursuit and constantly gets rejected it can damage his psyche and stop him from pursuing after a while. So saying no to a date or not giving out your phone number because you wanna see how interested a guy is in you is childish and mentally harmful. And I'm sure the token resisters use it on their own sex as well.

I've been told that majority of women aren't like that and it shouldn't make a difference. Now the last studies I saw for men with low confidence in pursuing women was a round 33%. Little less than the women who use token resistance but not by much.

So let's do an experiment. Hold up all five fingers on one hand. Spread them out and look at how much space your fingers take up. Now put down your ring and pinky fingers. Yes majority of your fingers are still up but notice how much space your fingers no longer occupy. It's a bit of a difference. And that's about the difference between token resisters to non resisters and between men with and without confidence pursuing women.

***I couldn't find a study of women with low self esteem from not being pursued or from being rejected while pursuing.***

There's clearly conversations men need to have with men, women need to have with women, and both need to have with the other on what the rules of pursuit are because there's a lot of lonely, confused, and depressed people out there due to current rules of pursuit.